This is my story. I am the Woman in the Arena
I remember the first place I ever called home. It wasn’t a cozy house or even a room of my own—it was a cardboard box leaning against someone else’s wall. That’s where my world began. At six years old, my father left, and my mother had to raise me alone. Her anger at him was sharp and unrelenting, and I often bore the brunt of her frustration. Her words stung just as much as the hardships we faced. Life was tough, but it taught me how to be tougher.
Even in those dark days, I had dreams. They were small, fragile, but persistent. I grew up with grit as my companion, fighting for every inch of ground, while hope whispered in my ear even when I didn’t believe in it.
During College, I felt like a door opened for the first time. Going t America was in my new horizon—a place where I could create something different, something better.
I got married, had three beautiful children, and began to build a life. But life, as always, had its own plans. It was during this time that I came across The Secret Law of Attraction documentary. It opened my eyes to the possibility of a better life than the one I had.
I started learning about myself and future possibilities. That’s when I realized my marriage was a dead end—there were no dreams, no ambitions, just the heavy weight of stagnation. My ex-husband didn’t share my vision for a better life.
Choosing to leave was the hardest decision I’ve ever made.
But God knew what was ahead of me, so He brought me people who will be instrumental in my journey.
Ms. Freddy, The Feast and Paul Joon Lee. They showed me complete Faith and Trust in God.
When all was said and done I had were five trash bags of clothes, my books, and my determination. That was enough.
Rock bottom was no fun yet I continued to fight.
Fortunately my now husband was beside me all the way. He is my coach for everything Keller Williams. He was there fighting with me while guiding me through the world of real estate, pushing me to think bigger and act bolder.
He then introduced me to Quantum Leap, a program that changed everything. The idea of taking big, intentional steps—massive action with purpose—spoke to the fighter in me. I didn’t just want to survive; I wanted to thrive. With every step forward, one principle at a time, I began to build a life I could be proud of.
Now, I share what I’ve learned with high schoolers and young adults because I believe in the power of perspective. I want them to understand:
You already have everything you need to succeed.
You can do anything if you stay focused and determined.
Success isn’t a mystery—it’s a system.
Learn from those who’ve walked the path, and use what works.
What I hope more than anything is to inspire others to see that a life full of purpose and meaning is possible. The path will be messy. You’ll stumble and fall.
But every step forward is a victory, and every small win builds a foundation for something greater.
We’re all in the arena—bruised, scarred, but still fighting. And if I can do it, so can you.
